i met my cousin today after a veryyy long time.....she got married... and this was the second time i was meetin her after her marriage... she is now a mother of a 2 month old baby boy...
when i met her.. i noticd this weirdness in her behaviour.... this rudesness and arrogance towards everyone.. i wondered y....
i asked her.. she refused to answer... the next question i asked was how was her married life.. and she repeated the following sentence thrice..."DONT EVER GET MARRIED.. ULL SUFFER...THEY RE JUZ GOOD WID U IN THE BEGINNING.. LATER ON THEY TREAT U LIKE EVERY MAN TREATS THEIR WIFE AFTER YEARS OF MARRIAGE"...
i wasnt surprised... coz.. ive heard that from many females once they r over the beginin llove phase of marriage....i wonder y... i mean when they get married they re all so happy.... and they juz cant thank god enuf for givin them a life partener...... but right after a year or so... they start gettin irritated wid that one person they were madly in love wid.......
being a girl... when i think of my marriage...i think of all the girls ive known so far who r married.. and in their words missin the freedom and fun they had when they were with their parents...
wat confuses me is.. wen a girl is at her parents house... she cant wait to find the love of her life get married wid him.... and have kids wid him...
and as soon as she does step into that part of her life....finds the love of her love gets married has kids.... she misses her past and wishes she got bak her freedom all the times she spent being a girl who was single ready to mingle!!!
we want our lifes to change... and when it does... we want to go back to wat it was...
similarly when we are in skool... we wanna join uni and have an independent life.. once we r in uni we want to start working.... and when we do start working we miss our college life and wish it never ended.. and we were in colege.. we miss our skool life and wish it never ended and we wud always be kids..
the question is... what exactly do we want... and when we do get it... y do we want more.. or less than that.....
i feel weird when i see such situations coz i feel the same...and at times i wish my uni life doesnt end... coz wen it does.. ill miss it and want it to come back... and when u cant go back in time.... its difficult to move on...
we shud always keep in my mind... yesterday is past... tommorow is a mystery and today is a gift... thats y it is called present!!! :)